Although this might sound cliche this book has really helped me reorganize myself and look at things as they are and not how I would like them to be.... I went through a really bad break up about 2 years ago and for some reason I could not let go of this guy. I think maybe because I was afraid of letting go and not finding something "better" or putting myself out there in such an honest way again, but regardless of the reason I went through all the motions of a girl in a break up mode ... I had the lonely friday nights in bed with a tub of ice cream and a bag of chips, then there was the crazy party girl phase, and of course the I'm totally over him phase until I see him with another girl then start all over phase. then a friend told me about this book it was by the same guy that wrote he's just not that into you and it really helped me see that I was holding on to memories of what use to be instead of what the present was currently becoming. From that point on I promised to look as things how they truly are not through my over analyzed vision and to only date people who compliment me instead of complete me because I never want to left with only half of myself again.
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